Brian and Elisabeth's Sensuality Expansion Program

The Sensuality Expansion Program has been the most rewarding, pleasurable and intense program I have ever taken on.  I have moved through a way of being that I was stuck living my life through.  A way of being that prevented me from fully being vulnerable and open.  A way of being that prevented me from enrolling people into things I was taking on.   A way of being that prevented me from actually feeling what was going on.  And now, at the end of the Sensuality Expansion Program, I have been able to demonstrate an ability that all people have, but only a handful consciously notice. 

Elisabeth and I were learning the intricacies of relationships and being in December of 2008 with Beyond Education, now Erwan Davon Teachings, in a program called The Oracle, a year long program designed to enable couples and individuals ongoing structure around transformation, relationships and orgasm.  At that time, our relationship suffered from “relationshipitis”, which, loosely defined, is a relationship that progresses to a certain level of commitment before a couple is fully prepared.  Elisabeth enrolled me in going for what I wanted with the Sensuality Expansion Program, which was juicy, turned-on relationships, freedom from my fears, and a “hands-on” training in causing a deliberate orgasm in a woman.  She was a stand for me in that, and also I was a stand for her having that.  We registered for the program and then began our journey.

Along the way to the Sensuality Expansion Program, we encountered a variety of issues in our relationship; from tension in our relationship around DOing, to generating some very intense moments of connection.  In August 2009, we hosted an awesome fundraising event to allow or friends to support us in our quest to be in the program.  The entire process of planning the event, to cleaning up afterwards, brought some core issues in our relationship into the foreground.  We struggled and overcame many obstacles, and enjoyed a lot of very pleasurable moments as well.  The structure of the Oracle of Sex, Money and Power and our friends, who study this way of life with us, supported us through all kinds of peaks and valleys.

On the morning that our Sensuality Certification Program began, we sat side by side and dove into our deepest and darkest ways of being.  My fear of conflict and embarrassment came to the front, as I worked through my self-consciousness.  As the Resolution continued into the second day, I began to realize just how much I was not confronting in my life.  My fear of conflict and embarrassment were running my life.  I filtered everything I experienced through this Identity.  As I put more attention on the reasons for why I feel self-conscious, they began to feel ridiculous.  My Identity filters my experience, and it will never stop.  The intelligence in being conscious of the Identity, though, is that the truth, or reality, is revealed. 

The Resolution created a space of being high.  We were clear about our Identities and how they filter our experience, and also that the Identity is only one element of our consciousness.  As the Identity filters our experience, we can then notice it, feel it and not resist it, admit that it is there, not dramatize it, and finally, move through it.  I am perfect.

The DOing training began.  We were all high from declaring our perfection, and also felt great from our sensuality exercises.  I began noticing the high energy I was generating and the enjoyable atmosphere I was surrounded by.  I was excited to dive into the DOing training from Erwan.  I took in all I could from observing how Erwan was being during the dates, and how Alicia was at effect.  One of my favorite frames was from a date Erwan and Alicia had, in which Erwan demonstrated how coming down felt.  Erwan took us all on a rollercoaster ride by bringing Alicia down with some really heavy pressure inside her introitus and on her clit, after going on a couple of nice, juicy peaks.  Alicia’s pussy lips were ripe and red, stretched out vertically by Erwan’s right thumb just inside her introitus, and his left hand anchoring and pulling back her hood.  His hands were very animated; each finger dancing around a different part of her pussy as he pleasurably brought her down.  He then put on the brakes, and shifted the pressure on Alicia’s clit and removed his thumb from her introitus, leaving me feeling like I was hanging in mid-air.  The moment when Erwan sent Alicia’s orgasm back up by continuing a silky, light stroke on her clit was both a lesson on how to bring someone down pleasurably and intently, and how the energy in the moment feels so juicy and primal.  

During the fourth day of the program, I began understanding how much the person at effect, the person being done, influences my ability to be present and feel fully.  I wasn’t feeling totally confident, even a little frustrated, but was living on a much higher level than ever.  One thing I got during these days was a firm grasp on how I relate to the Identity of the person at effect, and was empowered by understanding its power.  This began to shift my attention outward, off of myself and into reality.  One of my favorite frames with this insight was on the fourth day.  Elisabeth and I were sitting at the fountains outside of the café, discussing what was occurring for her after our ninth session.  She was deep into her Identity, relating to it like it was real, but noticing that it was not real at all.  She tried to remove herself from the conversation by stating that she was really hungry, and wanted to get some food at the market.  I had her stay with me, and kept feeling where she was at.  There was a moment where I could feel something shift with her.  She looked at me with very seductive eyes and moved closer to me.  She generated herself and moved beyond her Identity.  She was really beginning to turn me on, and I could feel her want to be near me.  I felt really good that I was able to be with her as she was, neutrally, and that she was able to transcend the emotions and the relationship to them. 

The days following included phenomenal DO dates and some very pleasurable living.  Erwan and Alicia’s attention on us was a guide for my attention to relate to other peoples energy.  I also began to notice my Identity in my every moment with more breadth and scope.  We ramped up the energy even more, and lived very turned-on and high.  I can remember one moment, where Elisabeth and I were walking around Harbin, noticing the color of the trees, the warmth of the Sun, the intense openness that I felt in my chest around my heart, and even how my pants felt on my legs as I walked slowly, one step at a time, enjoying every moment. 

The sentiment on the final day of the program was cheerful and high.  I enjoyed DOing Elisabeth in the graduation session DO date.  I really generated myself in this last date, and will not expect anything less of myself for the rest of my life.  I had a solid confidence in my touch and my voice.  I felt through my Identity and really enjoyed the touch, turn-on and orgasm in Elisabeth’s body.  I put my full attention on how my fingers felt to me, where it felt good to stroke her clit, and how her attention guided me to what she wanted. 

I am grateful for the love and support that Erwan and Alicia bring.  The Sensuality Expansion Program has been all about having the life that I want; having rewarding relationships, how to live pleasurably and in the moment, and the ability and confidence to enable a woman to have a deliberate orgasm.  I have the power to identify the part of my consciousness that affects how I perceive reality, and that is, by far, one of the most incredible gifts to receive.