I have the privilege of getting the inside scoop on the sex lives of countless relationships. The reality is that in most cases the turn-on decreases after the “honey-moon” period is over (although most people are reluctant to admit this before the relationship has all but bottomed out.) This decline does not have to be the case. Over and over we have the privilege of helping couples (or singles learn how to) turn their relationships back on or enhance an already great sex life!
Here are the 4 steps: 1) Tell the Truth about how your sex life has been going since the beginning of the relationship, graph it; 2) Commit to an ever expanding sex life and be willing to do what it takes; 3) Learn the art of DOing (basically, how you can create chemistry and turn-on to the point of sustained high level male and female orgasm); 4) Structure your lives so that sensuality and pleasure (including your new DOing skills) are prioritized.