How to gratify a woman

Last week we focused on a woman’s appetite. Now, what does it take to gratify that appetite. A good starting place is with the question “what does she want?”

1Depositphotos_16039197_original Vic Baranco, the famous sensuality researcher, used to say women want sex, food and baubles, in that order. What he meant was that relationship (including sex) is the foremost desire of women and necessities are second and extras are third.  This is tremendously useful for men in realizing what women want and for women in having their desires as right.

Women also want a lot, but may order short, for safety reasons. In other words, hedge her bet.

The key to gratifying a woman is realizing what she wants, that she wants a lot, and giving her everything that she wants… or perhaps barely less in order to gratify her appetite but not satisfy her appetite.  It’s like leaving the dinner table before your stuffed; you’re looking forward to the next meal, yet you are gratified.

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One Response to “How to gratify a woman”

  1. Keith says:

    I think in our culture, this list of three, and it’s order, is thought of as bad, or the woman is bad for wanting it. But without judgement, from a clear and safe place, this feels so true. In my experience, once trust is present, either in me or her in her desire, this is absolutely the case. Such a good thing to know!