After teaching singles and couples how to have 15-minute orgasm for the last nearly 20 years I can tell you there is nothing better you can add to a relationship to accelerate it, at least in the turn on department. It’s the best relationship advice I could give you in the sex department.
|In two of our advanced programs, the Oracle of life and love and the Oracle of sex, money and power, we have been having sensuality research pools over the last two weeks and Alicia and I have been blown away by people’s ability to give and receive pleasure.
The technique is called DOing, standing for deliberate orgasm.
One person plays the role of cause (the “Doer”) the other plays the role of effect (being done to or the “DOee”). Doing involves manual stimulation, usually between two people, but someone can do it to himself or herself as well
The most important point for the doer is having their full attention on the pleasure of the doee. The most important point for the doee is surrendering to their doer. This establishes connection. Connection is key.
Communication is the next most important point. Talk approvingly both ways!
The Doer should “peak” their partner regularly. This means taking mini breaks while stroking your partner, from a tenth of a second to several seconds. These breaks stop the cummer from spiking up really fast and going over a hard edge (traditional climax orgasm) and instead extend the sensation.
When the cummer reaches what we call the Orgasm line, where the body just hints at going into involuntary contractions, the most obvious sign of orgasm, back off and slow down. This will keep you in a state of orgasm without crashing over a hard edge. Also push your genitals out, keep them relaxed (vs. clenched) throughout but especially at this point.
The orgasm will be higher and more relaxed than you are used to… and of course of much longer duration.
There are about a million other points I could mention, but these are among the most important. Realistically, to learn 15-minute orgasm requires training and practicing. The Sensuality Expansion Program is where we do our highest level training with singles and couples, but our other advanced programs and vacation courses are a great place to start : )